Jake Likes to Play Games
 
boy at table with board game
 
 
By Yvonne Domings
Terry's Tips

Social stories are stories that are designed to help children understand social expectations. They are often customized to address a situation that a child finds challenging. For more on social stories, see the model book Using Book Builder to Develop and Write Social Stories.

This book is a model of the way Book Builder can be used to write social stories. Book Builder provides an authoring environment that can enrich a basic social story by including coaches that help the reader notice the critical features of a social situation.


 



the coaches: Miss Shelley, Bot and Molly

The coaches on the bottom of
each page help you understand the story.

Click on the coaches to find out how they can help you.


two boys playing a board game
Jake likes to play
games with his friend.

Terry's Tips

Learning to predict the thoughts and feelings of others develops in early childhood. Children (and adults) base their predictions on the context of the situation and the non-verbal cues of the people in the situation.

For some children, particularly those on the autism spectrum, learning to read context and non-verbal cues must be explicitly taught. A social story is a good way to do this.


happy Jake
 
 
Jake feels happy when he
wins the game
.
Terry's Tips

Developing an understanding of emotion is a skill set that children develop over time. Research has indicated that children who are engaged in conversations about emotion come to understand their own emotions and the emotions of others.

On the next couple of pages, the author describes Jake's feelings when both winning and losing. The coaches prompt the reader to think about how his or her own feelings when happy or angry. You can use Book Builder to provide prompts for discussion with the child about emotions and the physical feelings that accompany them.


angry face (Jake)
 
Jake feels angry when he
doesn't win the game.

Terry's Tips

Discussing the physical feelings that accompany emotions can provide children with clues to help them label emotions. This can set the stage for  them to begin to recognize emotions and develop strategies for regulating emotions and accompanying behavior.

On this page the book builder coaches have been scripted to aid the reader in beginning to think about the physical feelings that accompany different emotions.


angry boy at a table with a game. Sad boy standing.
 
 
It is not fun to play with an angry friend.
 
When Jake is angry, Jake's friend
does not want to play with him.

Terry's Tips

On this page, Jake has to consider how his friend feels. The coaches have been scripted to help the reader predict the feelings of Jake's friend.

Understanding that another person's thoughts and emotions differ from our own is a skill called theory of mind. Theory of mind develops in young children over time, however, children with autism spectrum disorders, in particular, have difficulty developing theory of mind. Social stories were developed to enlighten people with autism spectrum disorders about the actions and feelings of others.


sad face (Jake)
 
Playing games alone isn't fun.
Jake wants his friend to play.
Terry's Tips

On this page, the coaches focus on helping the reader make a prediction about Jake's feelings. Predicting is another skill that is difficult for people on the autism spectrum. The coaches can be authored to provide support for gaining this skill.

The coaches provide a prompt, a hint and a model. This is a framework that has been used to help children develop reading comprehension skills. The author has used the framework to support the development of a child's prediction skills.


boy thinking
Jake tries to think of a
way to be friendly.

Terry's Tips

On this page, the author models another strategy for solving a problem. The coaches help the reader to think about the problem. In addition, the author introduces the word "friendly" to mean being a good friend and making friends happy. Once the meaning is established with a child, this new vocabulary can be used when the same or similar situations arise in the future.

 


boy thinking about smiling
Smiling is friendly.
Terry's Tips

On this page, the author provides some ideas about actions that exemplify the new vocabulary word in order to begin to create a concept of what by it means to be "friendly."

The coaches again provide a prompt to think of other ways to be 'friendly,'  a hint and, finally, model of ways to be 'friendly.'


one happy face and one face trying to smile
Jake can try to smile even
when he feels a little angry.
Terry's Tips

In a social story, it is important not to describe actions definitively. For example, rather than write: "Jake smiles at his friend," write: "Jake tries to smile at his friend." This subtle change reinforces the idea that the child can try to act in a way that meets the social expectation even if he or she is not always successful.

On this page, Jake smiles despite still feeling angry inside. The page introduces the concept that sometimes a person may choose to hide his or her true feelings. Although this concept is fairly advanced, research suggests that children benefit from being exposed to and included in conversations about emotion. 


boy thinking about saying "Congratulations"
Saying "Congratulations"
is friendly too!
Terry's Tips

On this page, the child is provided with a scripted response. While many people wonder if suggesting that a child use a script when he or she may not "mean" it, there is research suggesting that such scripts do provide a social marker that help children better understand how others feel in a given situation (Chen & Smith, 2009). 

The suggested script, provides a model for a strategy of action. Even though the child may need prompting when the problem arises, the social story provides the child with an explanation of the social expectations in advance increasing the liklihood of success in the heat of the moment.


boy with a little smile and boy saying "Congratulations."
Jake tells his friend
"Congratulations!"
Terry's Tips

Here the page provides the reader with another strategy to use. The coaches serve their now familiar role for the child. Using the coaches in a consistent manner, provide the child with the ability to call on a particular coach that suits his or her needs. Children with autism spectrum disorders respond particularly well to consistency of routine making this particularly helpful with this population.


two happy faces
Jake is right!
 
Jake's friend wants to play
with him when he is friendly.

Terry's Tips

On this page, the author reinforces the concept of being friendly. The coaches help the reader to guess how Jake feels by prompting him or her, providing a hint for where to look and providing a model prediction that Jake is happy.


two friends at a table playing a board game

 

 
 
Jake and his friend have
fun playing games together.
Terry's Tips

Carol Gray developed the well-known format for social stories. According to Gray, there are 10 basic criteria for social stories. One of the 10 criteria is that the conclusion not only summarizes the information from the book, but it also reinforces the concepts covered.

On this page, the summary (when Jake is friendly his friend wants to play games with him) also serves to reinforce the "moral" of the story. 


References

Autism and Theory of Mind:

Baron-Cohen, S., Leslie, A.M., Frith, U. (1985) Does the autistic child have a 'theory of mind'? Cognition, 21, 37-46.

Harris, Paul L. 2005. Conversation, pretence, and  theory of mind. In: Astington, J. W. and  Baird,  J.  (eds.): Why language matters  for  theory  of mind. Oxford: Oxford University Press.

Family Talk and Emotion Understanding:

Chen, D., Smith, C. & Harris, P. (2009). What is missing in the "happy victimizer"?  -- The effect of cognitive cuing.  SRCD: Denver.

Brown, J., & Dunn, J. (1996). Continuities in emotion understanding from three to six years. In Child Development, 67, 789-802.

Dunn,  J.,  Bretherton,  I.,  and  Munn, P. (1987).  Conversations  about  feeling states  between  mothers  and  their  young  children. In Developmental  Psychology, 23(1), 132-139.

Dunn, J., Brown, J. & Beardsall, L. (1991). Family talk about feeling states and children's later understanding of others' emotions. In Developmental Psychology, 27. pp. 448-455.

Dunn,  J.,  Brown,  J.  R.  and  Beardsall, L. (1991).  Family  talk  about  feeling states  and  children’s  later  understanding  of  other’s  emotions. In Developmental Psychology, 27(3), 448-455.

Fivush, R., & Vesudeva, A. (2002). Remembering to relate: Socioemotional correlates of mother-child reminiscing. Journal of Cognition and Development, 3, 73-90.

Hughes, Claire and Judith, Dunn 1999. Understanding mind and emotion: Longitudinal associations  with  mental-state  talk  between  young  friends.  Developmental Psychology, 34, 1026-1037.

Lagattuta, Kristin H.  and Henry M. Wellman.  2002. Differences  in  early  parent-child conversations  about  negative  versus  positive  emotions:  Implications  for  the development  of  psychological  understanding.  Developmental  Psychology,  38(4), 564-580.

Smith, C., Chen, D. & Harris, P. (unpublished) "When the Happy Victimizer Says Sorry: Children's Understanding of Apology
and Emotion" (submitted to the British Journal of Developmental Psychology).

Social Stories

Gray, C. (2004). Social Stories 10.0: The New Defining Criteria and Guidelines. In Jenison Autism Journal. Jenison Public Schools: Jenison, Michigan.